Japan is the Now Destination to Take Your Children and Grandchildren and Here is the Best of the Best: Part I Cities to Visit and Where to Stay, Selection of the Tour Company and Guides
- Mema
- 5 days ago
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Why is Japan the NOW destination? According to the Wall Street Journal, the
Japanese yen has lost one third of its value against the U.S. dollar over the past five
years. The U.S. dollar has gained 15% against the yen since the end of 2023.
This Grandma recently returned from Japan with my thirteen year old grandson. It was
his choice as a destination as he is into anime and manga. Anime is a type of
animation, cartoon series, that originated in Japan. Manga are comic books or graphic
novels originating from Japan. I am now hooked on the anime series, “My Hero
Accademia,” the version dubbed into English. Start watching with your children and grandchildren. It is exciting and addictive.
Part II will concentrate on preparation, tips, the itinerary and experiences we considered
the best.
Here is Part I the best of the best of Japan.
WHERE TO VISIT
Definitely go to Tokyo and Kyoto. We spent five days in each. Kyoto is a great base for
day trips if you want to see Nara, the original capital, and Hiroshima/Miyajima. We
added Hakone, Mt. Fuji, which my grandson loved. We were one of the few lucky
enough to see Mt. Fuji when I understand few have such opportunity as it is mostly in
the clouds.
We went to Osaka for a day, and it is a destination I would skip as I thought it was
honkytonk, and we were not into street food which it is famous for. Hiroshima/Miyajima
is family specific as it is intense and emotional and, in my opinion, more appropriate for
older teens and above.
My daughter and grandson are going to Japan soon, primarily Tokyo and Kyoto, and
have added a destination for relaxation at the end, Asaba, staying at Izu. They are
adding Kanazawa, staying at the Hotel Sanraku, Kanazawa. They are doing a day trip
to Hiroshima/Miyajima and an evening food tour of Osaka from Kyoto.
SELECTION OF TOUR COMPANY
Yes, I recommend that it is best to use a tour company. This Grandma is a Tripadvisor
user and contributor, and plans most trips without a tour company, but English is not
spoken as much as you would expect and the cultural differences are not to be
minimized. You will not manage to do and see half as many amazing things on your own in a
country like Japan with language and cultural challenges.
Because Japan is the destination of the moment, planning far in advance for hotels and
especially securing the best guides appropriate for your family, children and
grandchildren is most important.
Know your family and what they like and ask key questions before you commit to a tour
company.
Selection of our tour company came from a recommendation of a trip taken by an adult
family member. I did not know the right questions to ask when traveling to Japan with
children and learned. Kensington Tours, who we used, highly rated, and popular,
“partners” with Destination Asia as their associate in Japan. Basically, Kensington
agents, who had been to Japan, helped us prepare an itinerary which I learned was
based on pre-made half day tours, and everything else was delegated to Destination
Asia. Destination Asia’s brokers contacted the hotels; our favorite in Kyoto did not even
know either name, but rather told me a broker contacted them.
When you select a tour company, ask if they have their own presence in Japan, select
the guides themselves, or do they “partner” or delegate any of the process to others.
Decide what is most important to you.
My daughter has selected a tour company for Japan that has its own representatives in
Japan, but she has not yet gone to Japan. Boutique Japan, the company she is using,
has five star reviews on Google. This is a review on Tripadvisor Forum:
“ Their attention to detail and commitment to customer service is the best. They work very
closely with you to understand what you really want, and not want, to see and do while in Japan.
They will plan an itinerary based on your timeframe, desires, and pace. They will make
restaurant reservations and purchase advance tickets if needed. They will check in with you pre-departure, during your trip, and after you arrive home. They have local English speaking
partners in Japan that you can contact in case of emergency. They will have a welcome
package waiting for you at your first hotel. This package will contain additional information
including maps, guides and advance tickets. I highly recommend Boutique Japan. “
If you prefer a fully escorted group tour, check out Gate 1 Travel.
www.gate1travel.com. A dear friend took their Japan tour and loved it, comprehensive
but exhausting. Gate 1 Travel’s motto is see the world for less, wait for a sale to book,
and they cover everything. My teenage grandchildren have been taken on two Gate 1
Travel tours.
GUIDES: THE MOST IMPORTANT TO MAKE OR BREAK YOUR JAPAN
DESTINATION
It is best that you have the same guide in each location for however long you are going
to be in a location in Japan. For you to secure the best guide, book early and again,
ask key questions.
Booking through Kensington Tours, Destination Asia selected the guides based on what
I had told Kensington about wanting a guide in each location that was expert and
experienced in positively dealing with American teenage boys. I had no personal
contact with Destination Asia.
The guide can make or break your trip to Japan.
You want an experienced and expert guide who is not only bilingual, one whose cultural
stance and knowledge is positive and favorable to American children, teens, and young
adults, makes them the priority, is flexible to adapt to what interests them and can on
the spot vary, adjust and perfect for your family a previously prepared tour. The earlier
you book, the best opportunity to have to secure the best guides.
I was clear that the guide must be appropriate for my grandson, a thirteen year old
American boy. Two out of three were outstanding for us and fit perfectly within the
parameters set above.
It bears repeating that the guide can make or break your trip to Japan.
Our guide in Tokyo was amazing. Our guide in Hiroshima was amazing. Our guide in
Kyoto appeared offended by my thirteen year old grandson, would not engage him, and
“broke” our Kyoto stay. For example, in a major temple with a huge golden Buddha as
the centerpiece, my grandson was drawn to the giant statue of a samurai warrior to its
left. The guide did not notice, not paying attention to him, and continued with his
prepared tour of the temple going right. It was as if my grandson and his interests did
not exist. Our Kyoto guide was not an appropriate guide for a child, an American teen.
On the other hand, to our Tokyo guide my grandson was the priority, and she geared
everything to what he was interested in, prepared surprises based on his interests,
participated with him in experiences with those Senseis (teachers) who spoke no
English, and expanded his horizons by introducing him to Japanese culture, treats and
foods. She watched, listened, and planned for subsequent days, varying the preset
itinerary, with what she knew would make him happy, for example, stopping in a parking
garage on the Rodeo Drive of Tokyo, as she knew he was interested in luxury cars.
Hotels:
Location! Location! Location!
I would recommend that you select your hotel in each location by where you want to
walk on your own at night and when you are done with the morning tour and afternoon
tour. You can choose between a modern or traditional hotel or a modern or traditional
ryokan. A ryokan is a traditional small Japanese inn that offers a unique cultural
experience. There are now modern ryokans where the futons are more like real beds.
Ryokans are located throughout Japan, known for their hospitality, personalized service,
many historic.
Tokyo is huge and each area has its own character and things to do. I would
recommend a hotel convenient to the outstanding subway system, as your tours in
Tokyo will most likely be by subway.
We stayed at the Keio Plaza Hotel, recommended by Kensington. I chose staying on the club
floor. With an American teen, it was wonderful to have access to the breakfast and dinner
appetizers, and snacks in the club room as well as their sky room, where you could watch the
nightly light show on the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Office across the street, eating waffles and drinking Starbucks. Having both American and Japanese foods in the club floor gave us an opportunity to explore the Japanese options and have the American as well. We enjoyed staying in Shinjuku, with the subway entrance right outside the hotel door, and where we could walk in the neighborhood, also close to McDonalds and Subway.
Walking distance to the east, there’s a district with long-established department stores, cinemas and theaters. In Shinjuku, many restaurants operate all night, and districts such as Omoide Yokocho (Memory Lane) or Shinjuku Golden Machi have back streets filled with tiny restaurants and bars that reflect each owner’s unique taste and style.
My daughter is staying at the Janu Tokyo, also in Shinjuku.
In Kyoto, there is Old Kyoto and New Kyoto and a choice of ryokans and hotels. I selected, on my own, the Tripadvisor number one hotel, a historic and traditional ryokan in Old Kyoto, with only five suites, but minutes’ walk from the best shopping district in New Kyoto. The Shirame is spectacular. My grandson loved this inn and it was a favorite part of our trip to Japan. My daughter is planning to stay there as well with my twenty one year old grandson. From the proprietor description you can see the location is the best:
Discover your own Kyoto as you stroll around the stone paved streets along Ochaya
buildings and lose yourself in small, centuries' old back alleyways. You can walk to
many famous tourist spots from Shiraume Ryokan: Yasaka Shrine, Chion-in Temple,
Shore-in Temple, Kodai Temple, Kiyomizu Temple,Kenjin Temple. We are about a 5
minute walk from Shijo Street and downtown Kyoto. Other nearby attractions include
Furumonzen, Shin-furumonzen and Nawate Streets packed with antique shops, tea-
ceremony-accessory shops and craft stores drawing aficionados from all over Japan
and the world. For outstanding dining experiences, we can recommend a wide range
of restaurants and cafes near-by: sushi, udon noodles, traditional Japanese cuisine,
Western cuisine, bars, Japanese sweets, Matcha green tea shops,etc.”
Kyoto Shiraume Umemi
78-6 Sueyoshicho, Higashiyama Ward, Kyoto, 6050085, Japan
Phone: +81 75-561-1459
Here is my Tripadvisor review of the Shiraume:
“Perfection. Shirame clearly ranks as one of the greatest experiences as a place to stay
in Kyoto. It is a,traditional ryokan 350 years old up to modern standards, beautifully
appointed, but be prepared to sleep on futon like comfort on the floor. Location could
not be better, over a short bridge over a river, in the center of Gion in Old Kyoto walking
distance to nearly everything you might want there. With only 5 suites, you must book
as soon as you know you are coming to Japan. The service and food are impeccable.
Have breakfast in the open air in the river room overlooking running river water and see
a gray heron pose for you. Have a multi course gourmet Kobe steak dinner beautiful to
look at and delicious to eat. Relax daily in one of two private jacuzzi rooms and have a
private masseuse arranged for you in your room (9,000 yen was quoted for one hour).
Welcoming and caring as if you are a guest in a private home, with daily beautifully
hand written notes left by Saho, the charming proprietress, decorated with origami birds.
Perfection.”
Next, Japan is the Now Destination to Take Your Children and Grandchildren Part II of
the best of the best of Preparation, Tips, the Itinerary and Experiences.
Joy,
Mema