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Where Are We Now? Finding Ourselves in Every Decade of Adulthood, Twenties to Eighties
Within the last several months, I have felt a sudden compulsion to address the Holocaust in my life and write a memoir of how the Holocaust impacted my family and me. Until this point, I could not see movies about the Holocaust, I could not read books about the Holocaust. I could not deal with the Holocaust as a child of Holocaust survivors. This turnabout has perplexed me. Because of this new compulsion, I just returned from a Jewish Heritage tour to Eastern Europe, visited
Nov 64 min read


Microplastics and Neoparticles: How Big is Their BIG DANGER and Can We Do Anything About It?
October 27, 2025, the Wall Street Journal, in “The Big Danger of Microplastics: the tiny bits of plastics that are polluting the globe and posting health risks,” by Simon Constable, joined the growing LOUDER VOICES of the BIG DANGER of microplastics and neoparticles or nanoplastics. I noted that I first started this blog post and collecting articles about microplastics and neoparticles in February, 2023. I am a Bill Maher fan. I saved, among dozens of articles, that, on his M
Oct 304 min read


The Intimacy Weekend: What is it and Why This Retired Family Court Judge Thinks It is Imperative for Every Committed Relationship and Marriage
Whenever a couple near and dear to me tells me that they are entering into a committed relationship, getting engaged, or getting married, I first recommend premarital counseling, which I learned builds a strong foundation for the new committed relationship or marriage. There will be three entities, each person as an individual and as a separate entity, the committed or marital relationship. Combining the entities in a safe, expert setting eases the transition. Why not make g
Oct 235 min read


Everything Friends: The Why, The How, How Many or Too Many, Social Media Impact, And, Ultimately, Wisdom As You Age
All of a sudden, or not so sudden with the domination of social media, and everybody in a group sitting on their phones rather than talking to each other, studies about everything about friends and friendships are everywhere. But are they helpful? The Why I was raised by two Holocaust survivors who believed that friends were those who turned you over to the Nazis, and only family members were the people you could depend on and with whom you should surround yourself. Leaving o
Oct 145 min read


His Name was Jihad
His name was Jihad Al-Shamie. He was 35 years old and a British citizen of Syrian descent who entered the U.K. as a very young child, and...
Oct 65 min read


How To Be A Super-Ager As Your Body Experiences Significant Biological Bursts of Aging In Three Critical Stages Around Ages 44, 60, and 78
I recently learned at age 78 that age 78 is the third critical age when the human body experiences a significant biological aging burst,...
Sep 184 min read


What Word Has Been Added to The Cambridge Dictionary in 2025-‘Skibidi’?
Having teenage grandchildren is an education. Not necessarily an education that I expected nor that I desired. I did teach middle school...
Sep 13 min read


My Young Adult Experience Gives Me Personal Knowledge About What the Issue of Birthright Citizenship May Mean to Those Children Who May Be Affected in the Future
Having been a judge and a lawyer, I am a rule follower. Actually, I’ve always been a rule follower, so it was easy to be a lawyer and a...
Aug 244 min read


The New Trauma for the Parents of Our Baby Grandchildren and How We Grandparents Have the Key to Alleviate the Angst
There is a new trauma for the parents of our baby grandchildren and we grandparents have the key to alleviate the angst. The controversy...
Aug 184 min read


The Doctor Dilemma We Boomers Pass On To Our Children and Grandchildren Part II: Treatment, Insurance and Medicare
As I reflected in Part I, regarding the doctor dilemma we Boomers pass on to our children and grandchildren, it took this Grandma one...
Aug 127 min read


The Doctor Dilemma We Boomers Pass On To Our Children and Grandchildren Part I: The State of Medicine, Doctor Issues, and Prevention
It took this Grandma one year to get an appointment with a well-regarded ophthalmologist who specializes in cataract surgery at Bascom...
Aug 46 min read


Child or Grandchild Heading to College This Fall? Best Tips for the Week Before College and the First Week of College
Some of us are of an age where our baby children and grandchildren are no longer, and our children and grandchildren are heading off to...
Jul 144 min read


This Grandma’s Favorite New Tip About Hugging Grandchildren, and Additional Five Best Tips on Personal Touch For All Ages and For Health Based On Scientific Research
This Grandma’s favorite tip about hugs is that you should never be the first to let go when you are hugging your grandchild. I learned...
Jun 164 min read


How Do You Know the Day That You Become Old?
When interviewed by the Wall Street Journal, Warren Buffett, now 94 years old, was asked, “how did you know the day that you became old?”...
Jun 93 min read


It was the Actresses Who Worked With Spanish Film Director, Screenwriter and Author Pedro Almodovar Who Made This Widow Finally Cry
It is actually just now two years, two months, and three days since my husband died and I became a widow. You learn a lot becoming a...
Jun 13 min read


Is there Anyone in the World, Including The Pope, Who Does Not Suffer From Imposter Syndrome?
Reading an article in the New York Times, May 1, 2025, about Cardinal Luis Antonio Gokim Tagle, once leader of the Church in the...
May 133 min read


Three Fresh Ideas to Revamp Your New Year’s Resolutions for 2025
Every year, I challenge myself to bring something fresh to my New Year’s resolutions. Normally, I pass down a life lesson to my...
Jan 23 min read


If A Boomer Cannot Immediately Bring to Mind A Date, Name, or Word Does Not Mean He or She Is Impaired, Challenged, Or Lacks Wisdom, Intelligence, Or Competence
This Grandma is getting angrier and angrier about ageism. According to the World Health Organization, “ageism refers to the stereotypes...
Feb 17, 20244 min read


Where Do You Fall In the Controversy Over Clear Plastic or Bullet Proof School Backpacks For Our Grandchildren or Neither At All
It is easy to want to put school shootings out of your mind. Then school starts and the issue is again in front of you or put in front...
Oct 3, 20234 min read


There is One Summer Pool and Beach Toy for 2013 That Is Addictive To Children Age Three and Up
This Grandma looks for summer pool and beach toys every year, trying to find a true winner. The first place I look is the Oppenheimer Toy...
Jul 23, 20233 min read
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