Intimacy. Romance. Intimacy. Luxury. Intimacy. Location. Intimacy, Privacy. Intimacy, Memories. As a divorce lawyer and divorce judge for decades, I have lectured and written often that the first thing that goes in a relationship is intimacy. Life interferes with the intimate connection that brought a couple to the point of commitment to the relationship. Maintaining the intimate connection should be the primary intent of any relationship, it keeps it healthy and vibrant. I