A friend in his mid 80's sent an article, “ The Truths of Getting Old,” by Richard David Hames, on Substack, to a friend in her 60s. He didn’t send it to me. I think it was because I am reaching the decade of the 80s, and he perceived that it would be too difficult for me to read. My friend in her 60s sent me the article and asked me several times if I had yet read it yet and what did I think? Yes, “adding life to years” requires planning many decades earlier! What I lo